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| Happy 2013!! |
Sorry for the long hiatus from the blog..a lot of things going on but I've got a lot lined up for the year!!!(..not to mention loads of photos waiting to be uploaded!! Will do that in a separate post, though. Consider this my "Hello 2013 post")
Sometime back, I met up with a friend for lunch and as yeast is to bread, our tête-à-tête didn't escape the 'relationship convo'..most female meetings don't! ha!
She didn't seem to quite understand the concept of moving on..or should I say MY concept of moving on which I prefer to refer to as letting go.
Her argument was, 'How can you talk about something or someone so passionately one minute and pretend they don't exist the next?'
This was in reference to something that had prevailed a few months back.
My defense; 1. It was not pretense..I merely faced up to the situation(hard as it was) and LET IT GO.
2. My award winning 'ockhams razor' principle which il explain later.
I'll stick to no.1 for the purposes of this post.
Letting it go.
Whenever I have to do the former, I always refer to this script I came across by TD Jakes.
I pray it helps those of you who don't necessarily understand the concept of 'Ockhams Razor' or those facing situations(not just in love relationships but work, family..life in general) that need to hit the road, now rather than later:)
Start the new year with a new lease of life!!
Ps..Ive emboldened it for a lil emphasis..lol.
There are people who can walk away from you.
And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don’t want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.
When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.
The bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]
People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can’t make them stay.
Let them go.
And it doesn’t mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you’ve got to know when people’s part in your story is over so that you don’t keep trying to raise the dead.
You’ve got to know when it’s dead.
You’ve got to know when it’s dead.
You’ve got to know when it’s over. Let me tell you something. I’ve got the gift of good-bye. It’s the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It’s not that I’m hateful, it’s that I’m faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He’ll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don’t need it. Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!!
If you are holding on to something that doesn’t belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to……
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains…………
LET IT GO!!!
If someone can’t treat you right, love you back, and
see your worth…..
see your worth…..
LET IT GO!!!
If someone has angered you.
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge……
LET IT GO!!!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction……
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents
LET IT GO!!!
If you have a bad attitude…..
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better……
LET IT GO!!!
If you’re stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him……..
LET IT GO!!!
If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship…….
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep trying to help someone who won’t even try to help themselves……
LET IT GO!!!
If you’re feeling depressed and stressed………………
LET IT GO!!!
If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying ‘take your hands off of it,’ then you need to…..
LET IT GO!!!
Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for 2013!!
LET IT GO!!!
Get Right or Get Left … think about it, and then.
LET IT GO!!!
‘The Battle is the Lord’s!’